Lovely new interview at Sunday Express mag published on Sun, September 28, 2014

TOBY, 45, lives with his wife, fellow actor Anna-Louise Plowman, in London. The couple have three children, Eli, seven, Tallulah, five, and Kura, four.
Not a lot of people know this but I’m very good at… cheering myself up when I’m down. I have episodes of Father Ted on my laptop and those work every time. It’s not just the humour that does it – it’s the humanity of that show. It’s not good for my image but… I’m no stranger to embarrassment. The most embarrassing thing that ever happened to me was forgetting my first line in a play. The curtain rose, the lights went up, I entered – and couldn’t remember a thing. I had to ask for a prompt. The audience groaned. It was terrible.My biggest fear is… my children getting hurt.The shop I can’t walk past is… Aesop. It’s an Australian company that makes amazing skin and hair products. There’s one near where I live and I always have to go in.The one thing I’d change about myself is… that I’m frequently referred to as posh. That really gets up my nose, because it’s simplistic and patronising and it shows how depressingly hung up about class we still are in this country.My favourite TV programme is…House of Cards – that’s a very smart show.My first kiss was… at a school dance, with a girl called Suzy. I probably wasn’t very good.
If I can, I always try to avoid…  answering questions about my parents [actors Dame Maggie Smith and the late Robert Stephens]. I wouldn’t want my background to be any other way, but sometimes I do envy actors who just get asked about their work. I’m a 45-year-old man – I don’t need to be talking about my parents any more. My greatest weakness is… Haribo sweets, which I steal from my children. I’m ashamed of myself.My last holiday was… with my wife and kids in St Lucia last Christmas. It was so nice to get away from the rain and long nights of an English December.I’m currently reading…The Luminaries by Eleanor Catton. The size of the book is a good reason to get a Kindle, but it’s a fantastic read.The last time I cried was… recently. I cry all the time. It’s mostly music that does it to me, and I always cry at my children’s recitals.The most expensive thing I’ve ever splashed out on was… a necklace for my wife. It looks great on her.My favourite place in Britain is… Norfolk. My perfect Sunday is… at home with my wife and children. I’ve recently spent a lot of time away, filming in South Africa, so being back here is fantastic. After an extended period abroad, being reunited with my family is very grounding. On a film set, you tend to get tunnel vision and you think work is all there is, especially with the pressure of a big production. So it’s very good to get back into the parental routine and remind yourself that there are other things in the world which are much more important.

Hot damn… Toby oozes so much sex appeal and rugged charisma in this photo. Yet it’s not just his physicality that gets me. Reading this just makes me LOVE Toby so much more… he’s just so real and down to earth. I LOVE how important his family is to him and that he truly enjoys spending time with them. LUCKY miss Plowman!

Lovely new interview at Sunday Express mag published on Sun, September 28, 2014

TOBY, 45, lives with his wife, fellow actor Anna-Louise Plowman, in London. The couple have three children, Eli, seven, Tallulah, five, and Kura, four.

Not a lot of people know this but I’m very good at… cheering myself up when I’m down. I have episodes of Father Ted on my laptop and those work every time. It’s not just the humour that does it – it’s the humanity of that show.

It’s not good for my image but… I’m no stranger to embarrassment. The most embarrassing thing that ever happened to me was forgetting my first line in a play. The curtain rose, the lights went up, I entered – and couldn’t remember a thing. I had to ask for a prompt. The audience groaned. It was terrible.

My biggest fear is… my children getting hurt.

The shop I can’t walk past is… Aesop. It’s an Australian company that makes amazing skin and hair products. There’s one near where I live and I always have to go in.

The one thing I’d change about myself is… that I’m frequently referred to as posh. That really gets up my nose, because it’s simplistic and patronising and it shows how depressingly hung up about class we still are in this country.

My favourite TV programme is…House of Cards – that’s a very smart show.

My first kiss was… at a school dance, with a girl called Suzy. I probably wasn’t very good.

If I can, I always try to avoid…  answering questions about my parents [actors Dame Maggie Smith and the late Robert Stephens]. I wouldn’t want my background to be any other way, but sometimes I do envy actors who just get asked about their work. I’m a 45-year-old man – I don’t need to be talking about my parents any more.

My greatest weakness is… Haribo sweets, which I steal from my children. I’m ashamed of myself.

My last holiday was… with my wife and kids in St Lucia last Christmas. It was so nice to get away from the rain and long nights of an English December.

I’m currently reading…The Luminaries by Eleanor Catton. The size of the book is a good reason to get a Kindle, but it’s a fantastic read.

The last time I cried was… recently. I cry all the time. It’s mostly music that does it to me, and I always cry at my children’s recitals.

The most expensive thing I’ve ever splashed out on was… a necklace for my wife. It looks great on her.

My favourite place in Britain is… Norfolk.

My perfect Sunday is… at home with my wife and children. I’ve recently spent a lot of time away, filming in South Africa, so being back here is fantastic. After an extended period abroad, being reunited with my family is very grounding. On a film set, you tend to get tunnel vision and you think work is all there is, especially with the pressure of a big production. So it’s very good to get back into the parental routine and remind yourself that there are other things in the world which are much more important.

Hot damn… Toby oozes so much sex appeal and rugged charisma in this photo. Yet it’s not just his physicality that gets me. Reading this just makes me LOVE Toby so much more… he’s just so real and down to earth. I LOVE how important his family is to him and that he truly enjoys spending time with them. LUCKY miss Plowman!

Toby Stephens Toby in his own words what a lovely man and that photo good lord he oozes so much sex appeal I want a huge poster of THIS photo in my office but then again I might not get ANYTHING done

I LOVE this post-proposal scene… there has to be a kiss-in-the-rain scene in EVERY romantic period drama and this one is beautifully done. The feverish rustling of the wet clothes… the way Rochester vehemently holds Jane’s head as he kisses her… and how he struggles to let her out of his embrace… this scene just leaves me breathless. To top it off, the scene ends with drenched Rochester all hot & bothered… good lord!

Jane Eyre 2006 Hot Rochester! Toby Stephens good god Toby you've bewitched me body and soul